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Introduction ...

We have a couple of goals for our Gazetteer:

  • That it be a tool which helps us with planning our trips.
  • We're trying to shape our Gazetteer as a tool to help us understand the community in which our ancestors lived, the community that was part of their daily lives.
  • On our trips, we try to visit those places where our ancestors left their footprints.

By learning about Gay (and the surrounding area) during the time that our ancestors lived, we hope to have a better understanding of both their community and its relationship to their lifes. We hope that this tool helps to give us an insight into their world.

As we add data and organize our Gazetteer to help with our family research, we will be adding to this our Genealogical Helper for Gay. While we don't have information that is specific to any given person or family, we intend to expand our understanding about where and how people lived.

Neighboring Counties ...

When searching for family records, we have frequently made the mistake of not checking the neighboring counties.

For example, we have great-grandparents who lived in the southeast corner of their home county. During their lives, most hospitals were in the next county to the east. Almost all of the nearby churches and cemeteries were in the county to the south.

So when searching for records, we had our best success by looking in neighboring counties instead of the county in which they lived:  their home county contained property and probate records; the county to the east contained birth and death records; the county to the south contained their burial records. If we hadn't included the neighboring counties, we would have missed many valuable sources of information.

If you're in a similar situation, we hope that the following information helps.

Gay is located in Choctaw County.

To see how the shape of Oklahoma's counties may have changed over time, we recommend the Atlas of Historical County Boundaries.

The following counties adjoin and form the boundaries of Choctaw County: Atoka, Bryan, McCurtain, Pushmataha, Lamar (TX) & Red River (TX).

Below are the counties that are near Gay. For each of these counties, we show a sample of those communities that are closest to Gay:

  • Choctaw County     (The home county of Gay)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Grant
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
    • Hugo
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the northeast)
      • Hugo is located in Choctaw County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Hugo
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 5,070 people
      • Jump to TripAdvisor's Tourism page for Hugo <1>
    • Soper
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the northwest)
    • Sawyer
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the east)
    • Virgil
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the northeast)
      • Virgil is located in Choctaw County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Virgil
    • Boswell
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the west)
    • Apple
      (16 miles [25.7 km] to the northeast)
      • Apple is located in Choctaw County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Apple
    • Frogville
      (18 miles [29 km] to the east)
      • Frogville is located in Choctaw County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Frogville
    • Spencerville
      (19 miles [30.6 km] to the northeast)
    • Fort Towson
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the east)
    • Swink
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the east)
  • Atoka County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Lone Pine
      (19 miles [30.6 km] to the northwest)
      • Lone Pine is located in Atoka County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Lone Pine
    • Farris
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the northwest)
  • Bryan County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Bennington
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the west)
    • Wade
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the west)
      • Wade is located in Bryan County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Wade
    • Matoy
      (28 miles [45.1 km] to the northwest)
      • Matoy is located in Bryan County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Matoy
    • Bokchito
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the west)
  • McCurtain County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Rufe
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the northeast)
    • Slim
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the east)
      • Slim is located in McCurtain County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Slim
    • Valliant
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the east)
  • Pushmataha County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Belzoni
      (18 miles [29 km] to the northeast)
      • Belzoni is located in Pushmataha County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Belzoni
    • Antlers
      (19 miles [30.6 km] to the north)
    • Ethel
      (19 miles [30.6 km] to the north)
      • Ethel is located in Pushmataha County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Ethel
    • Rattan
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the northeast)
    • Oleta
      (23 miles [37 km] to the northeast)
      • Oleta is located in Pushmataha County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Oleta
    • Corinne
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northeast)
      • Corinne is located in Pushmataha County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Corinne
    • Moyers
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the north)
    • Finley
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the north)
    • Cloudy
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the northeast)
      • Cloudy is located in Pushmataha County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Cloudy
  • Fannin County (TX)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Telephone
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the southwest)
    • Allen Point
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the southwest)
      • Allen Point is located in Fannin County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Allen Point
    • Allens Chapel
      (28 miles [45.1 km] to the southwest)
      • Allens Chapel is located in Fannin County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Allens Chapel
    • Carson
      (28 miles [45.1 km] to the southwest)
      • Carson is located in Fannin County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Carson
    • Honey Grove
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the southwest)
  • Lamar County (TX)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Razor
      (5 miles [8 km] to the south)
      • Razor is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Razor
    • Chicota
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the southeast)
    • Arthur City
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southeast)
    • Garretts Bluff
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southwest)
      • Garretts Bluff is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Garretts Bluff
    • Midcity
      (9 miles [14.5 km] to the southeast)
      • Midcity is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Midcity
      • Midcity has also been known as:
      • Trout Spur
      • Trout
    • Belk
      (9 miles [14.5 km] to the southwest)
      • Belk is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Belk
    • Powderly
      (11 miles [17.7 km] to the southeast)
    • Camp Maxey ‑ Historic
      (12 miles [19.3 km] to the south)
      • Camp Maxey is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Camp Maxey
    • Caviness
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the south)
      • Caviness is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Caviness
    • Hinckley
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the south)
      • Hinckley is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Hinckley
    • Sumner
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the south)
    • Direct
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the southwest)
      • Direct is located in Lamar County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Direct
  • Red River County (TX)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.
    • Kanawha
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the east)
      • Kanawha is located in Red River County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Kanawha
    • Addielou
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the east)
      • Addielou is located in Red River County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Addielou
    • Detroit
      (28 miles [45.1 km] to the southeast)
      • Detroit is located in Red River County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Detroit
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 684 people
      • Jump to TripAdvisor's Tourism page for Detroit <1>

For an expanded list of the communities that are closest to Gay, see our County-by-County Page for Gay.

Cemeteries Near Gay ...

Below are cemeteries that are in the vicinity of Gay.

This is a new section and is likely to have errors. If you find an error, such as a missing cemetery or we have the wrong name, please let us know. If you know of them, we would also appreciate learning about previous or alternate names.

Although we don't have the information ourselves, if you need information about a burial or interment, photos, transcripts, how to contact the cemetery or local authorities, please visit our list of websites on our Genealogy Helper Page for Gay - one of the links might be able to help.

If not found below, our Cemetery List for Gay covers a larger area, with the cemeteries listed in alphabetical order.

The following cemeteries are listed based on their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.

  • Sweet Hill Cemetery
    (2 miles [3.2 km] to the east)
  • Bluff Cemetery
    (3 miles [4.8 km] to the southwest)
  • Cold Springs Cemetery
    (3 miles [4.8 km] to the north)
  • New Macedonia Cemetery
    (4 miles [6.4 km] to the south)
  • Goodland Cemetery
    (4 miles [6.4 km] to the northeast)
  • Reid Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the south)
  • Littlejohn Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the southeast)
  • Mt. Olive Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the east)
  • Forest Chapel Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the south)
  • Crosley Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
  • Mt. Olive Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
  • Springs Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the northeast)
  • Continue List   (140 more) ...
    • Springs Chapel Cemetery
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the northeast)
    • Grant Cemetery
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the east)
    • Mt. Olivet Cemetery
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the northeast)

Nearby Communities in 1895 ...

We've built the following list with information that came from an Atlas published by Rand McNally in 1895. The Atlas had details such as the population of the community (which appears to have come from the 1890 Census) and whether there was a post office and/or railroad service available. We also indicate if the community no longer exists and is now historic.<3>

While we didn't find Gay in the Atlas, the following 1895 communities would have been found near the current location of Gay.

These communities are listed based on their distance from Gay, with the one closest to Gay listed first.

  • Chicota
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the southeast)
  • Arthur City
    (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southeast)
  • Powderly
    (11 miles [17.7 km] to the southeast)
  • Emberson
    (13 miles [20.9 km] to the south)
    • Emberson is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Emberson
  • Direct
    (15 miles [24.1 km] to the southwest)
    • Direct is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Direct
  • Sumner
    (15 miles [24.1 km] to the south)
  • Hinckley
    (15 miles [24.1 km] to the south)
    • Hinckley is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Hinckley
  • Maxey
    (18 miles [29 km] to the southwest)
    • Maxey is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Maxey
  • Givens
    (19 miles [30.6 km] to the south)
    • Givens is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Givens
  • Monkstown
    (20 miles [32.2 km] to the southwest)
    • Monkstown is located in Fannin County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Monkstown
  • Paris
    (20 miles [32.2 km] to the south)
    • Paris is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Paris
    • Population from the 2020 Census: 24,872 people
    • Jump to TripAdvisor's Tourism page for Paris <1>
  • Reno
    (21 miles [33.8 km] to the southeast)
    • Reno is located in Lamar County (TX)
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Reno
    • Population from the 2020 Census: 3,349 people
  • Continue List   (14 more) ...
    • Woodland
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the southeast)
      • Woodland is located in Red River County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Woodland
    • Kanawha
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the east)
      • Kanawha is located in Red River County (TX)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Kanawha
    • Brookston
      (23 miles [37 km] to the south)

We've also created an expanded list of communities that existed in the 1890's and were located in the area around Gay. See our List of 1890's Communities around Gay.

Newspapers Published in Gay ...

An ongoing effort between the Library of Congress and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH) has resulted in the National Digital Newspaper Program (NDNP).

To share their results, the partnership has created the Chronicling America website. The goal of this partnership is to assemble a database about the current and historic newspapers of the United States. This includes a growing collection of scanned images from selected papers. All of it available to the public on their website.

Using information that we've taken from the Chronicling America website, we've identified 73 newspapers that have been published in the area around Gay.

Although we're unaware of any newspapers that were published in the immediate area of Gay, there are papers which were published within 30 miles [48.3 km]<4>. A list of those papers, sorted by paper name, can be found on the Extended Newspaper List for Gay.

Websites to Help With Your Genealogy Research ...

When we do our genealogical research, we first turn to the websites from Cyndi's List, FamilySearch and Genealogy Trails. These helpful websites offer the information directly or else point to where you can find it. Their information is open to everyone.

To help you get started, the following links will take you to the pages that are relevant to Gay:

Footnotes ...

<1>While we're fans and frequent users of TripAdvisor, you should know that we're also members of the TripAdvisor affiliate program.
<2>The Find-a-Grave website is an excellent research tool with information about a cemetery's location and interments. They also offer a forum for their members which can provide additional help. More information about Find-a-Grave can be found on their website: findagrave.com.
<3>We use the term 'Historic' broadly and it generally means that the community no longer exists. However, it can also mean that the community might still exist, but was significantly larger or had a more 'official' existence in the past than it does now. Unfortunately our sources of data have proven to be unreliable. If you can provide us with more specific information about Gay, please let us know so that we can improve our accuracy.
<4>Our distances are not driving distances, but are calculated as a 'straight-line' (or point-to-point) distance. A straight line distance ignores things like rivers, canyons, lakes, et cetera - it's truly a line drawn from Point A (ie- Gay) to Point B. In other words: 'As the crow flies'.