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Introduction ...

We have a couple of goals for our Gazetteer:

  • That it be a tool which helps us with planning our trips.
  • We're trying to shape our Gazetteer as a tool to help us understand the community in which our ancestors lived, the community that was part of their daily lives.
  • On our trips, we try to visit those places where our ancestors left their footprints.

By learning about Durham (and the surrounding area) during the time that our ancestors lived, we hope to have a better understanding of both their community and its relationship to their lifes. We hope that this tool helps to give us an insight into their world.

As we add data and organize our Gazetteer to help with our family research, we will be adding to this our Genealogical Helper for Durham. While we don't have information that is specific to any given person or family, we intend to expand our understanding about where and how people lived.

Neighboring Counties ...

When searching for family records, we have frequently made the mistake of not checking the neighboring counties.

For example, we have great-grandparents who lived in the southwest corner of their home county. During their lives, most hospitals were in the next county to the west. Almost all of the nearby churches and cemeteries were in the county to the south.

So when searching for records, we had our best success by looking in neighboring counties instead of the county in which they lived:  their home county contained property and probate records; the county to the west contained birth and death records; the county to the south contained their burial records. If we hadn't included the neighboring counties, we would have missed many valuable sources of information.

If you're in a similar situation, we hope that the following information helps.

Durham is located in Middlesex County.

To see how the shape of Connecticut's counties may have changed over time, we recommend the Atlas of Historical County Boundaries.

The following counties adjoin and form the boundaries of Middlesex County: Hartford, New Haven & New London.

Below are the counties that are near Durham. For each of these counties, we show a sample of those communities that are closest to Durham:

  • Middlesex County     (The home county of Durham)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Durham
      (Less than 2 miles to the north)
    • Little City
      (4 miles [6.4 km] to the east)
      • Little City is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Little City
    • Middlefield
      (4 miles [6.4 km] to the north)
      • Middlefield is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Middlefield
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 4,350 people
    • Middlefield
      (4 miles [6.4 km] to the north)
    • Higganum
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
    • Ponset
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
      • Ponset is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Ponset
    • Middletown
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the north)
      • Middletown is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Middletown
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 46,013 people
    • Haddam
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the east)
      • Haddam is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Haddam
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 8,150 people
    • Middletown
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the north)
    • Killingworth
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the southeast)
      • Killingworth is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Killingworth
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 6,340 people
    • Arnolds
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the east)
      • Arnolds is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Arnolds
    • Haddam
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the east)
    • Portland
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the north)
  • Fairfield County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Shelton
      (23 miles [37 km] to the southwest)
    • Shelton
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the southwest)
      • Shelton is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Shelton
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 40,957 people
    • White Hills
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the west)
      • White Hills is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for White Hills
    • Huntington
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the southwest)
      • Huntington is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Huntington
    • Oronoque
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the southwest)
      • Oronoque is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Oronoque
    • Stevenson
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the west)
    • East Village
      (27 miles [43.5 km] to the west)
      • East Village is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for East Village
    • Monroe
      (28 miles [45.1 km] to the west)
    • Nichols
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the southwest)
      • Nichols is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Nichols
    • Stratford
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the southwest)
      • Stratford is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Stratford
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 51,660 people
    • Monroe
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the west)
      • Monroe is located in Fairfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Monroe
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 19,328 people
    • Riverside
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the west)
    • Botsford
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the west)
  • Hartford County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Berlin
      (11 miles [17.7 km] to the north)
    • East Berlin
      (11 miles [17.7 km] to the north)
    • Berlin
      (11 miles [17.7 km] to the northwest)
      • Berlin is located in Hartford County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Berlin
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 20,390 people
    • Kensington
      (12 miles [19.3 km] to the north)
    • Rocky Hill
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the north)
      • Rocky Hill is located in Hartford County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Rocky Hill
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 20,037 people
    • Taylor Town
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the north)
      • Taylor Town is located in Hartford County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Taylor Town
    • Milldale
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the northwest)
    • Plantsville
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the northwest)
    • Southington
      (13 miles [20.9 km] to the northwest)
    • Rocky Hill
      (14 miles [22.5 km] to the north)
    • South Glastonbury
      (14 miles [22.5 km] to the north)
    • Marion
      (14 miles [22.5 km] to the northwest)
    • Southington
      (14 miles [22.5 km] to the northwest)
      • Southington is located in Hartford County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Southington
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 43,829 people
  • Litchfield County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Greystone
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northwest)
      • Greystone is located in Litchfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Greystone
    • Pequabuck
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northwest)
    • Terryville Station
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northwest)
      • Terryville Station is located in Litchfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Terryville Station
    • Oakville
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the northwest)
    • Plymouth
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the northwest)
      • Plymouth is located in Litchfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Plymouth
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 11,552 people
    • Terryville
      (22 miles [35.4 km] to the northwest)
    • Plymouth
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northwest)
    • Watertown
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northwest)
      • Watertown is located in Litchfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Watertown
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 21,517 people
    • Watertown
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northwest)
    • Thomaston
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the northwest)
      • Thomaston is located in Litchfield County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Thomaston
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 7,505 people
    • Thomaston
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the northwest)
    • Northfield
      (27 miles [43.5 km] to the northwest)
    • Woodbury
      (27 miles [43.5 km] to the west)
  • New Haven County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Wallingford
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the west)
      • Wallingford is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Wallingford
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 44,076 people
    • Meriden
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the northwest)
      • Meriden is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Meriden
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 58,981 people
    • North Madison
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the south)
      • North Madison is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for North Madison
    • Northford
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the southwest)
    • Wallingford
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the west)
    • Yalesville
      (7 miles [11.3 km] to the west)
    • Meriden
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the northwest)
    • South Meriden
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the northwest)
      • South Meriden is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for South Meriden
    • Madison
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the south)
      • Madison is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Madison
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 17,924 people
    • Clintonville
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southwest)
      • Clintonville is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Clintonville
    • North Branford
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southwest)
      • North Branford is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for North Branford
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 14,066 people
    • Quinnipiac ‑ Historic
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the west)
      • Quinnipiac is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Quinnipiac
    • Guilford
      (9 miles [14.5 km] to the south)
      • Guilford is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Guilford
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 22,043 people
  • New London County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Hadlyme
      (14 miles [22.5 km] to the east)
    • Westchester
      (15 miles [24.1 km] to the northeast)
      • Westchester is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Westchester
    • North Westchester
      (16 miles [25.7 km] to the northeast)
    • Hamburg
      (17 miles [27.4 km] to the east)
      • Hamburg is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Hamburg
    • Lyme
      (17 miles [27.4 km] to the east)
      • Lyme is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Lyme
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 2,304 people
      • Jump to TripAdvisor's Tourism page for Lyme <1>
    • Lyme
      (17 miles [27.4 km] to the east)
      • Lyme is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Lyme
    • Sterling City
      (18 miles [29 km] to the east)
      • Sterling City is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Sterling City
    • Colchester
      (19 miles [30.6 km] to the northeast)
    • Old Lyme
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the southeast)
    • Salem
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the east)
      • Salem is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Salem
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 4,083 people
    • Salem
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the east)
    • Old Lyme
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the southeast)
      • Old Lyme is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Old Lyme
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 7,280 people
    • Chesterfield
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the east)
      • Chesterfield is located in New London County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Chesterfield
  • Tolland County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Amston
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the northeast)
    • Gilead
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the northeast)
      • Gilead is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Gilead
    • Hebron
      (20 miles [32.2 km] to the northeast)
      • Hebron is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Hebron
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 9,480 people
    • Gay City ‑ Historic
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northeast)
      • Gay City is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Gay City
    • Hebron
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northeast)
    • Turnerville ‑ Historic
      (21 miles [33.8 km] to the northeast)
      • Turnerville is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Turnerville
    • Andover
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northeast)
      • Andover is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Andover
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 3,228 people
    • Andover
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northeast)
    • Bolton
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northeast)
      • Bolton is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Bolton
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 4,855 people
    • Bolton
      (24 miles [38.6 km] to the northeast)
    • Columbia
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the northeast)
      • Columbia is located in Tolland County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Columbia
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 5,355 people
    • Columbia
      (25 miles [40.2 km] to the northeast)
    • Vernon
      (26 miles [41.8 km] to the north)
  • Windham County
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • Willimantic
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the northeast)
    • South Windham
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the northeast)
  • Suffolk County (NY)
    • The following are listed by their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.
    • East Marion
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the southeast)
    • Greenport
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the southeast)
    • Orient
      (29 miles [46.7 km] to the southeast)
    • Peconic
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the south)
    • Dering Harbor
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the southeast)
      • Dering Harbor is located in Suffolk County (NY)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Dering Harbor
      • Population from the 2020 Census: 11 people
    • Orient Point
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the southeast)
      • Orient Point is located in Suffolk County (NY)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Orient Point
    • Southold
      (30 miles [48.3 km] to the southeast)

For an expanded list of the communities that are closest to Durham, see our County-by-County Page for Durham.

Cemeteries Near Durham ...

Below are cemeteries that are in the vicinity of Durham.

This is a new section and is likely to have errors. If you find an error, such as a missing cemetery or we have the wrong name, please let us know. If you know of them, we would also appreciate learning about previous or alternate names.

Although we don't have the information ourselves, if you need information about a burial or interment, photos, transcripts, how to contact the cemetery or local authorities, please visit our list of websites on our Genealogy Helper Page for Durham - one of the links might be able to help.

If not found below, our Cemetery List for Durham covers a larger area, with the cemeteries listed in alphabetical order.

The following cemeteries are listed based on their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.

  • Bluff Head Cemetery
    (3 miles [4.8 km] to the south)
  • Stone House Cemetery
    (4 miles [6.4 km] to the southeast)
  • Little City Cemetery
    (4 miles [6.4 km] to the east)
  • North Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the north)
  • Pine Grove Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the north)
  • St.s Peter & Paul Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the west)
  • Marcus Cooke Memorial Park
    (5 miles [8 km] to the west)
  • St. Sebastian Cemetery
    (5 miles [8 km] to the north)
  • Calhoun Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the north)
  • Emmanuel Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the southeast)
  • Pine Orchard Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the southeast)
  • Burr District Cemetery
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
  • Continue List   (501 more) ...
    • Old Ponset Cemetery
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
    • Ponset Cemetery
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
    • Calvary Cemetery
      (6 miles [9.7 km] to the northeast)
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Calvary Cemetery
      • To give a relative sense of its location, the Calvary Cemetery is a large cemetery that is located outside and to the southeast of Middletown.
      • Jump to Find-A-Grave: FG ID #1933853 <2>

Nearby Communities in 1895 ...

We've built the following list with information that came from an Atlas published by Rand McNally in 1895. The Atlas had details such as the population of the community (which appears to have come from the 1890 Census) and whether there was a post office and/or railroad service available. We also indicate if the community no longer exists and is now historic.<3>

While we didn't find Durham in the Atlas, the following 1895 communities would have been found near the current location of Durham.

These communities are listed based on their distance from Durham, with the one closest to Durham listed first.

  • Durham Center
    (Less than 2 miles to the north)
    • Durham Center is located in Middlesex County
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Durham Center
  • Durham
    (Less than 2 miles to the north)
  • Middlefield
    (4 miles [6.4 km] to the north)
  • East Wallingford
    (5 miles [8 km] to the west)
    • East Wallingford is located in New Haven County
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for East Wallingford
  • North Guilford
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the south)
    • North Guilford is located in New Haven County
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for North Guilford
  • Higganum
    (6 miles [9.7 km] to the east)
  • Northford
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the southwest)
  • North Madison
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the south)
    • North Madison is located in New Haven County
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for North Madison
  • Middletown
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the north)
  • Tracy
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the northwest)
    • Tracy is located in New Haven County
    • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Tracy
  • Yalesville
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the west)
  • Wallingford
    (7 miles [11.3 km] to the west)
  • Continue List   (15 more) ...
    • Quinnipiac ‑ Historic
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the west)
      • Quinnipiac is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Quinnipiac
    • Clintonville
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the southwest)
      • Clintonville is located in New Haven County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Clintonville
    • Arnolds
      (8 miles [12.9 km] to the east)
      • Arnolds is located in Middlesex County
      • Jump to our Gazetteer entry for Arnolds

We've also created an expanded list of communities that existed in the 1890's and were located in the area around Durham. See our List of 1890's Communities around Durham.

Newspapers Published in Durham ...

An ongoing effort between the Library of Congress and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH) has resulted in the National Digital Newspaper Program (NDNP).

To share their results, the partnership has created the Chronicling America website. The goal of this partnership is to assemble a database about the current and historic newspapers of the United States. This includes a growing collection of scanned images from selected papers. All of it available to the public on their website.

Using information that we've taken from the Chronicling America website, we've identified 101 newspapers that have been published in the area around Durham.

Although we're unaware of any newspapers that were published in the immediate area of Durham, there are papers which were published within 13 miles [20.9 km]<4>. A list of those papers, sorted by paper name, can be found on the Extended Newspaper List for Durham.

Websites to Help With Your Genealogy Research ...

When we do our genealogical research, we like to start with the websites from Cyndi's List, FamilySearch and Genealogy Trails. These helpful websites offer the information directly or else point to where you can find it. Their information is open to everyone.

To help you get started, the following links will take you to the pages that are relevant to Durham:

Footnotes ...

<1>While we're fans and frequent users of TripAdvisor, you should know that we're also members of the TripAdvisor affiliate program.
<2>The Find-a-Grave website is an excellent research tool with information about a cemetery's location and interments. They also offer a forum for their members which can provide additional help. More information about Find-a-Grave can be found on their website: findagrave.com.
<3>We use the term 'Historic' broadly and it generally means that the community no longer exists. However, it can also mean that the community might still exist, but was significantly larger or had a more 'official' existence in the past than it does now. Unfortunately our sources of data have proven to be unreliable. If you can provide us with more specific information about Durham, please let us know so that we can improve our accuracy.
<4>Our distances are not driving distances, but are calculated as a 'point-to-point' distance. A straight line distance ignores obstructions like rivers, canyons, lakes, et cetera - it's truly a line from Point A (ie- Durham) to Point B. In other words: 'As the crow flies'.